The Design and Deployment of Memetic Artillery Shells
In the practice of rhetorical discipline, we would call it a grappling point - a thing which the enemy can too easily turn against you in the game of moral one-upsmanship. Yes, I know the feminist mind very well, so I know the spin they would put on such words, and I know that this would sway an appreciable constituency in the present case. Hence, I deem it politcally efficient to discard the phrase in question.
By following the suggestion which I have laid out here, this meme would have much greater power to pierce feminist character armor and disrupt the feminist worldview.